From self-hatred to self-compassion

From self-hatred to self-compassion

During my last silent retreat, after a few days, an old memory suddenly came to mind: I remembered a situation in which I had not behaved particularly elegantly or wisely. The memory stuck with me and resurfaced regularly over the next few days, accompanied by various...
Loneliness and connectivity in these times

Loneliness and connectivity in these times

This idea of shared humanity and the connections that we make with one another – that’s what, in fact, makes life worth living.– Clint Smith, author and scholar Some time ago, I read “The Lonely Century” by economist Noreena Hertz. In her book she...
Kindfulness

Kindfulness

“Contemporary scientific knowledge solidly affirmsthat kindness and compassion are to the brainwhat the breath is to life.” In the end of the 70s, like all young men in the Netherlands, I had to join military service for some time. I had just started to...